More black women dating outside race
"They never really say it's because he's White, or because he's Spanish or something like that," she writes, "It'll be more like, 'Well, you know he works at such and such, and our schedules don't match.' But we'll know really what it is.
It's 'cause he's White." Indeed, Black men do date outside their race more than Black women, but is interracial dating really as simple as just saying "go out and do it"?
But the reality often hits home during the holidays, when discussing your love life becomes an appetizer at meals with the family.
What can be even more disheartening than seeing your beautiful, professional, well-educated sisterfriend still unattached is seeing a successful Black man settle down with someone of another ethnic group.
Before everyone gets to mingle, three of the men meet with Iyanla to talk about why they avoid dating within their race.
To camera, the men explain themselves with unflinching honesty.
In the letter, published in Vibe Magazine, King says Black women should "open up," especially considering that Black men are dating outside the race.
"When you have everyone else who is willing to explore but a Black woman is like, 'I want me a brother'...
The truth of the matter is lots of Black women date non-Black men and will continue till the end of time. We also know that dating is a matter of preference.The immediate thought for many is, With all the gorgeous, accomplished Black women available, why didn't he choose one of us?So it's no wonder we're thrilled for Black women who have found love—no matter the ethnicity of their partner.She and her best friend even stopped talking for a month over a disagreement about something Michael, a Republican, had posted on Facebook."[My friends] said, "Asia, you were so down for the cause." I'm like, "I'm not down for the cause anymore?My struggles as a Black woman leading a legal department of a multistate corporation have just gone away? "It was almost like they treated it as if I had switched sides, and I was no longer down for the cause because I married a White guy. It's also not fair to him."Initially a few members of Michael's family were not supportive of the relationship.